The one thing I hear constantly is "WOW, you have two sets of twins that must be so hard on you" or "how are you coping?". Like seriously people don't feel sorry for me I absolutely love being a Mama! I wear my Mama crown every single day and I'm proud of it and I wouldn't have it any other way.
Of course there are hard days, it's not all peachy but I feel like my main purpose on this earth was to be a Twin Mama. They say God never gives you anything you can't handle and I truly believe that with every single fibre in me!
People are always asking me "How do you keep it all together?" First of all I don't! I am just winging this Mum gig like everyone else, I don't have all the answers but what I do have is motherly instinct and that is my one true guide. No one and no book can tell me otherwise! Number two I have a very hands on and loving Baby Daddy aka Hubby, he gets in there and does everything I do except for breastfeed but I'm sure if he could, he would. Each and every single day I think of one thing to be grateful for and I give thanks for that. When I think I'm about to lose the plot I stop, take a deep breath and remember that there is someone out there that has it so much harder than me in this moment and my life could be so much worse. Then I just get on with it. It's as simple as that, but hey that's just me.
Your probably thinking oh yeah right but oh don't you worry! There are some days where I want to do absolutely nothing! And guess what? I don't and that's okay. If all of the above doesn't work I just pour a big glass of wine and say tomorrow will be a new day which it will be.